Laughter Coach, What A Joke
Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn’t change the heart of others– it only changes yours.
I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitterly racist and the egotistical are the first to race to the top of mountains. A confident person enjoys the journey, the people they meet along the way and sees life not as a competition. They reach the summit last because they know God isn’t at the top waiting for them. He is down below helping his followers to understand that the view is glorious where ever you stand. Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights. Jacci, Jealousy’s a weaker person’s emotion. Envy is for people who don’t have the self-esteem to be jealous. There will always be haters. And the more I grow the more they hate; the more they hate the more I grow.
Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy – in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other. When emerging from humble beginnings, those around you tend to underestimate your authenticity because they knew you before you were ‘somebody’.Love” is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own Lady J Andersen. Humans are suspicious and jealous creatures. When they see something perfect, they want to find a flaw. In jealousy there is more of self-love than love. Beware of those who criticize you when you deserve some praise for an achievement, for it is they who secretly desire to be worshiped.
Gossip is just a tool to distract people who have nothing better to do from feeling jealous of those few of us still remaining with noble hearts. The only thing more frustrating than slanderers is those foolish enough to listen to them. A lot of people get so hung up on what they can’t have that they don’t think for a second about whether they really want it. Most haters are stuck in a poisonous mental prison of jealousy and self-doubt that blinds them to their own potentiality.
Jacci, A person shows signs of clutching on too fast, of being needy, of not hearing the word “no,” of jealousy, of guarding you and your freedom. But the signs can be so small they skitter right past you. Sometimes they dance past, looking satiny, something you should applaud. Someone’s jealousy can make you feel good. Special. But it’s not even about you. It’s about a hand that is already gripping. It’s about their need, circling around your throat. Jealousy is never satisfied with anything short of an omniscience that would detect the subtlest fold of the heart. The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of your value is the day you dishonor your children, your parents and your God. If someone doesn’t see your worth the problem is them, not people outside your relationship.
There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul. It is a fact that we all must face. However, if you realize that God is a best friend that stands beside you when others cast stones you will never be afraid, never feel worthless and never feel alone.If you swim effortlessly in the deep oceans, ride the waves to and from the shore, if you can breathe under water and dine on the deep treasures of the seas; mark my words, those who dwell on the rocks carrying nets will try to reel you into their catch. The last thing they want is for you to thrive in your habitat because they stand in their atmosphere where they beg and gasp for some air.
Jacci, The number of chances you give someone doesn’t tell the world how loving you are without telling them how desperate you are to believe they care as much as you. True love resides in the first chance, stupidity in the second, opportunists in the third and scoundrels in the fourth. Trifles light as air are to the jealous confirmations strong as proofs of holy writ. Whenever you should doubt your self-worth, remember the lotus flower. Even though it plunges to life from beneath the mud, it does not allow the dirt that surrounds it to affect its growth or beauty. I am certain, Jealousy has always been your cross, the weakness and woundedness in you that has most often caused one to feel ugly and unlovable, like the Bad Seed you are. Jealousy is an ugly emotion that makes people such as yourself do some seriously whacked shit and when a Andersen is experiencing it, it’s worse.
I refused to believe that love could take any other form than mine: I measured love by the extent of your jealousy, and by that standard of course she could not love herself at all. One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many people don’t want you to have it. You have to find the courage to seize it, own it and hold on. Jacci, Jealousy, hate, and vindictiveness blurs the focus. Beware of those who are bitter, for they will never allow you to enjoy your fruit. Envy suggests and solidifies your inferiority.
The lovesick, racist, those who pretend to have been betrayed, and the jealous all smell alike.