Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away to others.
To be a full lover is to become a healer to yourself and then help another heal their self. Finding a deep woman is the new love quest for an evolved modern man. When we free up the resistance within us we are able to approach any situation from a place of clarity. When you enter into any situation with a particular stance it is primarily filtered through your perspective. Even if you try and run through the scenario of how your partner may feel and what they may be thinking something will be missed because you are only filtering it through your level of understanding. Interpretation gives knowledge value, but it must evolve as new knowledge emerges. From a myriad incomplete truth, a greater whole.
If you love them, give them space to grow. And yourself the strength to accept that they might evolve and change. Whenever a judgment is present wholeness cannot exist. We must be willing to let go of judgments towards ourselves in order to come into alignment with our wholeness. When we align with our wholeness we rise from the inside out, and then we are able to share the highest manifestation of ourselves with the world. If you’re in a true union of love you should be becoming more of yourself, which looks closer to the representation of source, it is pure and it is selfless. If you are not becoming more of yourself if you are not growing if you are egoically attached it is not love.
Your personal development doesn’t end when the relationship begins; everything in life requires consistent care to maintain. A working relationship involves accountability. If or when you feel like you’re suffocating in your own thoughts, beliefs and circumstances you can either stay there and be buried alive, meaning you become numb, you become mentally and spiritually dead to your life and the world, or keep digging and sorting through your thoughts, circumstances and beliefs until you break through to the other side, until you see light and you’re free. See the light in the sense of clarity. You’ll come through no longer carrying the things that weighed you down because they could not fit through the journey you’ve made to your healing.
To really change the world, we have to help people change the way they see things. Global betterment is a mental process, not one that requires huge sums of money or a high level of authority. Change has to be psychological. So if you want to see real change, stay persistent in educating humanity on how similar we all are than different. Don’t only strive to be the change you want to see in the world, but also help all those around you see the world through commonalities of the heart so that they would want to change with you. This is how humanity will evolve to become better. This is how you can change the world. The language of the heart is mankind’s main common language. You will evolve past certain people. Let yourself.
You will grow and evolve because of your willingness to fail, to suck, to navigate murky waters, and to trust regardless of what happens. Nothing exists without a purpose. Every experience you have in this lifetime was written for you to grow into the person you were meant to become. As your life evolves, so should your circle.
Each and every one of us is absolutely complete. We all contain both masculine and feminine polarities. No-thing can exist incomplete. You can only love another appropriately when you understand your own completeness. Each and every interaction we have with another is an exchange of energy on some level, once you’ve learned the importance of cultivating your inner being, an understanding of your sacredness is also birthed within you and an awareness towards the way in which you share yourself and spend your energy. Rather than looking to find yourself in others and living from a place of sheer comparison, evolve to the Better Version of who you are currently.
Confidence turns into pride only when you are in denial of your mistakes.