We all desire to be understood and enveloped by another human being in an intimate way. This temporal life is only valuable if we can pour into others in a meaningful manner and encounter the consistent waves of unconditional love. We want the type of love that chases us like the wind chases leaves in the Fall. Our souls long for depth and acceptance- relational security. We desire to lose ourselves in someone who recharges our soul.
I want a love that makes me a better woman. I thirst for the unbeatable combination of vulnerable softness and fiercely tenacious sensuality grounded in unwavering commitment. I need both of us to fight for each other – in every situation. I hunger for a connection that builds excitement and mystery into our daily journey as a couple.
I long to invest in a man emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically – enhancing who he is becoming. I expect him to do the same for me – contributing and investing into my well-being and conveying trust through his actions. He can depend on me to stand by him through life’s crushing blows. I will promise to passionately support his dreams and goals and assist him in achieving them, but he must know that I also am devotedly pursuing my own ambitions.
I can smile at his profession of love for me – but he will know that I expect to see his actions backing up those verbal sentiments. I will grant him the same consideration. I will be present in our conversations and not merely a figure sitting across from him, but I expect him to give me his undivided attention when I yearn to be heard.
He must allow me to freely explore the woman I am by believing in me with unquestioning and unsuspicious faith. If my heart is to be completely his, I will charge him to release any form of mistrust.
My feelings are pure but intense. If he and I are together I will bind myself to him with abandon. I will not accept half-hearted interest from this suitor. He must also give all of himself to me. It is only in this manner that we will both be seasoned for an unconventional and fearless existence.
We must reach unceasingly beneath the surface to unlock the past and free each other from the guilt, regret, and shame that has bound us individually and paralyzed our future. Together we will remove barriers that threaten to throw us into darkness and require careful study of one another – not shying away from transparency. We will unveil TRUTH.