Blast Off By DL
Crisis doesn’t change people; it reveals them.
Life is not just about putting on expensive clothes and looking good. A man with true style conducts himself with a subtle sophistication. A sublime style, charm, and attitude that comes with an understanding of diverse aspects of self-care, grooming, dress, and personality. Amalgamate all of the above and you become a man you can be proud of. The way we imagine ourselves is seldom the way others interpret us. The writer’s curse is that even in solitude, no matter its duration, he never grows lonely or bored. Playing safe, hiding among the masses, will rarely get you noticed. A person with no enemies is a person with no personality.
People accuse me of falling in love easily. It just means that I’m able to see the beauty in most of the people who cross paths with me and I appreciate it for what it is and also for what it isn’t. Love is imperfect. Falling for someone’s flaws is just as necessary as falling for their strengths. And people like myself, who fall into love easily, are sometimes the loneliest souls around at the end of the day. Breaking the personality is like cutting the tree in its trunk, it needs years to be grown as it was. Maybe a combination of things in this world are our true soul mates. People are way too optimistic about the power they assume they have got to control how they are being perceived. They don’t realize that none of the armours they wear is free of holes. Our personalities define our realities.
What we value is important to us. It rises in the finite hierarchy of things we pay attention to. We are willing to put effort and energy in it. What we value however arises from our perspective; the way our brain synthesizes reality filtering facts it sees through its library of memories, its catalogue of knowledge and its store of experience. Our perspective then determines how we see the world and sense our place in it which means it establishes our position in what I will call our known universe. The perspective we have then feeds our sense of identity; what we feel we are and our sense of how others see us modified through our need for others to see us in a specific way. Our sense of identity, in turn, gives rise to our values. Our values determine our energy expenditure and guide our attention. Our attention determines what’s important to us. You can see here how a misstep anywhere along this chain can derail us.
Humans possess the ability to engage in both external observation and internal introspection. How much time they invest engaged in each activity is reflective of their values, which manifest themselves in behavior, personality formation, and influences the selection of narrative stories that they share with their brethren. If you are thought to be a good person, it means that you are weak. If you are thought to be a bad person, it doesn’t mean that you are a strong person. Rather, it would mean that you are unpleasant for everyone. Be unpredictable, neither good nor bad. Let them think of you as a good person with whom everyone should be careful while communicating, because you can be dangerous if you aren’t treated properly.
What most call the personality is an inflexible accumulation of emotive images. The real personality appears in your stillness only when you need it and disappears when the situation no longer calls for it. It is flexible without a periphery. It is multidimensional, free from psychological interference. When you are called upon to be a mother, a father, a lover, a student, a teacher, a fighter, you are these temporarily, but they do not remain as a state you identify with. Then there is love, there is affection without affectivity. I am such a dynamic person that I can’t survive in a static environment. Ripples will always be outgoing extroverts. Every person have own beauty but more beauty comes from the personality of a person.
The alliance of character and rationality is a serious question. The alliance involves both agents. The character is needed because logic will give you the structure, but will never tell you what should be inserted in it. The character is necessary because logic will tell you what is missing, but will not add anything new. The character is needed because logic will show you the optimal process of making things done without ever introducing how to make things done better. Logic will criticize everything, but never create anything. Logic alone is the tool to judge, plan or think, but it is invisible. Logic cares about your sentiments as the fork cares about your taste.
Success is not about Money , fame or Job It is all about becoming Well and Illustrative personality . So that Everyone remember you and learn from you. The world would be a much better place if even a fraction of us became the kinds of people we have deceived others into believing we are. He was not a man of icy nature, but he loved to gather icicles about him. We want people to understand that they’re choosing a set of policies and principles, a way of life, not a person. Growth is a multistep process, but it is an actual process. Spiritual formation isn’t quite as slippery as some make it out to be. The first step is to crack ourselves open to see what we’re hiding, either deliberately or inadvertently, and to drag what is in the dark into the light. This is the process of self-discovery and self-awareness. A Pearl’s beauty lies not just within her personality, but also within her heart. My opinion of me is what sets the tone of my personality.
To know a man properly, you must know the shape of his hurt the specific wound around which his person has been formed like a scab.
Be confident enough to show your true self to the world.